Welcome to Bud’s Blog
The real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes but in having new eyes – Marcel Proust
Sometimes Older Eyes work, too – Bud
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Necessary Definitions
Sage – a wise man; a man of gravity and wisdom; especially, a man venerable for years, and of sound judgment and prudence.
Curmudgeon – an ill-tempered old person full of stubborn ideas or opinions.
Fool – A person with poor judgment or little intelligence; a jester, a person whose role was to entertain a sovereign and the court, often with foolishness.
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I’ve been wondering lately what it would be like to be able to relive my life knowing what I know now. Or if I was able to give my grown children a view of the world through my Older Eyes, would it change their lives? Here’s a provocative proposition: If I could get every twenty-year old to look at the world through sixty-four year old eyes for just a few minutes, it would either change them for the better or kill them. Provocative but probably not true. I doubt there are many young men making bucket lists as a result of watching Jack Nicholson and Morgan Freeman.
With a do-over unlikely and getting my children to listen to my archaic opinions only slightly less so, I’ll record the view through my Older Eyes here in Bud’s Blog. As you read each post, you decide … Sage, Curmudgeon, or Fool … we can agree to disagree on which is which. Your comments are welcome, whatever your age. If what you read changes you for the better, I’d especially like to know. Hopefully there will be no casualties. If you are new here and want a taste of my Older Perspective before diving in, The Best of Feeling Older offers a few of my favorite posts on aging. Finally, if my work inspires you to try blogging … or even if you think, Jeez, I can do this better than Older Eyes – there are a series of posts on doing just that on my page, Starting a WordPress Blog.
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May 4, 2011 at 6:36 am
Good morning Bud. A couple of matters of business this morning. I would be interested in your protected posts. (what do you talk about? I am dying to know.)
Also, I have something for you over at my blog, waiting for you to pick it up.
Have a good day!!!
May 4, 2011 at 9:24 am
As far as I can recall, I only posted one that I protected. I believe in being very honest about myself but this one revealed more about my son that I was uncomfortable having completely public. Let me take a look (I don’t even remember the password! … sixty-six, you know) and I’ll email you. Be by tto your blog in a bit.
May 20, 2011 at 11:26 am
Congratulations! You have been awarded the “Versatile Blogger” Award. Visit sandysays1.wordpress.com for details.
May 23, 2011 at 8:32 am
Thank you very much, Sandy. I will be by to check it out!
June 30, 2011 at 2:07 pm
congrats for
http://dailypost.wordpress.com/2011/06/30/showcase-10-prolific-post-a-dayweek-participants/
July 1, 2011 at 2:27 am
Found you via 10 Prolific Bloggers. Nice site.
July 12, 2011 at 4:42 pm
I have no idea how I came across your blog, but it seems completely providential. I’m 26, but even I can appreciate a blog with proper grammar, capital letters, and not so many of these!!!!!!!!!
July 12, 2011 at 6:32 pm
Well, regardless of how you found me, welcome. I’ll be by your blog to say hello when I get back from vacation … maybe sooner.
July 26, 2011 at 11:35 am
Dear Older Eyes,
while reading your blog, it seems as if I am listening to the teacher who shares his heart with all on line…. now I see that we need to learn to listen for the personal stories could knock on the heart of each reader. That is like hearing the metaphors –
Thank you for the wonderful quote of Marcel Proust. It’s wisdom revived while reading you.
This unforgettable statement (The real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes but in having new eyes) as perfectly defines my personal approach to life and artistic creativity as instructs on how not to stumble on the grieving for the dullness of my current “comfort”.
Respectfully yours
Tomas Karkalas
September 1, 2011 at 1:54 pm
Hi. I just discovered your blog through The Daily Post. Have you heard of the book “The Portable Curmudeon” by Jon Winokur? My husband loves that book. Judy
September 7, 2011 at 2:48 pm
No, but I’ll take a look. I thought I WAS the portable curmudgeon 🙂
December 16, 2011 at 7:12 am
Where are you? Miss seeing your comments. Happy Holidays.
Sandy
December 17, 2011 at 1:05 pm
Hey, Sandy..Good to hear from you. Like most humans, I can be very obsessive and my current one is getting through 2011 posting every day. It’s been a struggle and cuts into my reading time. I’m making a pre-New years resolution to start reading blogs more and you are certainly on my list.
March 8, 2012 at 9:57 am
My word…it appears to be award day for you.
You deseve them!
April 2, 2012 at 8:16 pm
Car 54 where are you?
April 2, 2012 at 11:38 pm
Actually working, Sandy. For money. So, I’m having trouble keeping up with blog reading. I’ll try to stop by. Thanks for asking.
June 10, 2012 at 2:31 pm
I just found your blog thanks to Cheryl P. and I think it’s great. You’re a gifted writer and I wish I’d learned about your blog earlier. I enjoyed your current post and have often wished my son could see the world through my sixty year old eyes. But I guess the world doesn’t work that way. I hope you’ll visit me sometime at Chubby Chatterbox where I discuss Art, Humor and Nostalgia. I have a feeling we have much in common. Take care.
Chubby Chatterbox
October 20, 2012 at 1:29 am
Hi Bud…not many young people are going to take advice…I know I didn’t when I was young…we all have to make our own mistakes.
November 6, 2012 at 9:07 am
Sometimes I think I’d like to see the world through twenty-something eyes, Bud. So full of hope and excitement and enthusiasm. Old and young—we need each other.
September 21, 2013 at 3:16 am
My sweet friend, I have nominated you for some awards! Please visit this link: transcendingbordersblog.wordpress.com/2013/09/21/a-bunch-of-awards-4/
September 22, 2013 at 1:40 pm
Thank you very much. I will respond by post during the week.
October 26, 2013 at 2:24 pm
Sage, curmudgeon or fool. I like your choices, yet still see that we can each be all three. 🙂 Love your style, & the name of your blog. I hope your children do read it – it’s choice.
July 15, 2014 at 7:24 am
Have to agree with WordsFallFromMyEyes. The sage, curmudgeon, or fool is a great theme. Also an epic way to get all invested in your blog. I look forward into delving further into the blog. 🙂
December 1, 2014 at 3:52 pm
Hey, I had a great time reading your website. Do you have an email address that I can contact you on? Thank you and hope to hear from you soon.
Regards,
Joel
JHouston791 gmail.com
June 19, 2015 at 4:25 pm
Not sure how I found your blog but I’m enjoying trawling through your posts. I’m just embarking upon the next phase of my life so it’s great to read your reflections
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